Monday, April 13, 2009

The Best Advice

It's Friend Makin' Monday again over at All That is Good and we are sharing some 'friendly advice' today. (If you wanna join in the fun click on over and link up!) My advice comes from a great book called, "Toss the Guilt and Catch the Joy" by Merrillee Boyack (if you're a woman--and chances are if you're reading this you are-- you so need to buy the book.) When I'm feeling overwhelmed, guilt-ridden, worried about what other people might be saying about me, or just plain down in the dumps I like to refer to this passage to help me get back on track.

"Happiness is:

Courageously doing what you want to do, even if you are scared.
Experiencing your life as an exciting journey.
Stimulating your mind and caring for your body.
Realizing that you already have everything you need to make yourself
happy.
Knowing that you are the only one who can decide what is right or wrong for
you.
Accepting that you are okay even when you blunder and learn from your mistakes.
Knowing that what people say or do is a reflection of them
not you.

Listening to your inner wisdom.
Giving and receiving love unconditionally.

--Annonymous"

So tell me...what is happiness for you?


14 comments:

Anonymous said...

"Knowing that what people say or do is a reflection of them
not you."

That's a great observation!

Becca @ The Texas Darlings said...

That was great- thanks for sharing!

Have a wonderful week!

Becca

Xazmin said...

Such perfect advice. We need to remember these things more often!

Right now happiness to me would be my children temporarily losing their voices because they won't quit fighting! I'm blogging this minute to keep from going in and layin' down the hurt!!!

Xazmin

Vivienne @ the V Spot said...

That quotation is something I will keep in mind when dealing with difficult people. I think I'm a magnet for them. (Oh Dear! I hope it's not me...)
Thanks for your comments on my blog!
Happy Monday

Ann On and On... said...

Here from SITS... :)

Thanks for the wonderful words. I need to find that book.

Come on over to my monogram bag giveaway. :D

Tanielle said...

Awesome!!! I really need to get that book! Thanks so much for sharing! You are wonderful!

Have a great night!

Tanielle

Rhonda said...

Hi! Love it! What great advice! Thanks for sharing! Have a fabulous week!

Your kiddos are cuties!

Christie in Dallas, TX said...

What a great post! I love the very first statement about being courageous!

Jen @ tatertotsandjello.com said...

Thanks so much for the advice. So great! Happiness to me right now is a beautiful Spring day spent outdoors with my family!

Have a super night!

XOXO
Jen

Jennifer P. said...

Happiness is in my children's laughter for sure!

Thank you so very, very much for the sweet thoughts on hapiness and for the kind comment you left today. I sure appreciate it!

jennykate77 said...

Those are some really great tidbits of wisdom and advice! I love the one about realizing that you already have everything you need to make yourself happy. That's so good.

You're blog is so cute! Thanks for stopping by mine yesterday!

Hope you have a great day!!

Holly said...

I dont think my comment posted??!!

Mama Nut said...

Maybe try again, Holly...'guess I didn't get it or it didn't post. Sorry!

Heather said...

Such wise advice! Thanks for stopping by my blog today!